Now take that little girl, with all her fanciful dreams and unbridled aspirations, and tell her about these struggles, challenges, criticism and opposition you’ve seen (for these things will surely come!). But what would you want her to leave that conversation with? What would you as a parent tell your little girl at the end of such a conversation? In my opinion, one name: Mokgadi Caster Semenya.
I would tell her about this beautiful and strong woman who grew up in a small Limpopo village and dreamed of becoming a soccer star, but discovered along the way that she was a good runner…a great runner!
I would tell my little girl To Be Brave like Caster; who dared to challenge the position of the most
powerful institution in her chosen world of athletics – the mighty IAAF. She stood her ground. Sure,
Caster may have lost her most recent battle in the Court of Arbitration for Sport, but she had the
courage to face an opposition with much more political clout and financial resource than herself. And she’s still standing!
I would tell my little girl To Be True To Herself like Caster; who knows her identity, and claims it with grace, regardless of what others might tell her. Emerging from the clamouring noise of experts and scientists and lawyers arguing about what she is, Caster speaks with an unquivering voice of who she is. She is woman, beautiful and strong (and perhaps that’s what frightens some the most?).
I would tell my little girl To Run Hard And Fast like Caster; who did not allow others to shame her
into being a lesser version of herself. The louder the voices began to scream that she shouldn’t run, the faster she ran, and the further those voices fell behind. She has stood bravely at the starting line of every race and given 100 percent of herself. She has held her head high and continued to excel.
When opposition comes, as it will, I want my little girls to learn from a woman who has faced
opposition with courage and grace, stayed true to herself, and run as hard and fast as she could. Thank you, Caster, for showing my little girls how to face struggle and opposition.
Jacqui Bester is firstly a wife and mom to five rambunctious children who drive her nuts and fill her heart with unspeakable joy all in the space of a single day. She writes about her day to day adventures and misadventures in parenting, life and marriage. Jacqui is known for sharing a brutally honest account of her MESSY “mamahood”… the joy, the fun, the laughter and the tears. She enjoys a good mystery-crime novel with a lovely glass of red wine, trying out new foods and restaurants with her hubby on the odd date-night, exploring new places, learning new skills, and generally anything else that calls for a more adventurous approach to life. You can find her over on One Messy Mama.