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Zuma’s fiancée Conco hits back at accusations she called him a deadbeat dad

The former president missed his youngest son's first birthday, but his wife to be says she understands how busy he is.


Former president Jacob Zuma’s young fiancée Nonkanyiso Conco caused a stir on social media after penning a lengthy appreciation letter to the couple’s two-year-old son on Instagram.

She said in part: “Dear son, I want to thank you for being the reason why I need to work harder.”

She said she would work even harder to ensure her son gets the life she never had.

The rest of her post, however, left her social media followers accusing her of implying Zuma was an absent father.

“I have made peace that I’ll attend school activities alone, travel the world with him alone and take all responsibilities for raising a son and installing the best values in his life. Grow up, my first born, and may your light always shine.

“God, I will never curse you because I know your grace is enough for me.”

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Appreciation post; . Dear Son it’s almost two years that I have met you, but feels like we have met many years ago. Today I want to thank you for being the reason why I need to work harder. Kubuya imizuzu eminingi ngingedwa, kodwa kunqama kakhulu la ngihlela khona ukugubha usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa kulonyaka odlule, ngangineme kakhulu moyeni wami ngoba konke ngakwenza ngedwa kepha nobuhlungu bokumukela isimo sokuba umzali ongayedwa.Khona izimo ezike zifike ezidinga ubab we ngane kodwa amukho, ubuhlungu obujulile engasoze ngabukhohlwa. Ukhula ngamandla undondana inhliziyo ihaqwa uvalo mangicabanga ukuthi engabe imibuzo ayoba nayo ngoyiphendula ngithin. Konke okusebenza Kwami ngokuzikhandla ukuze yena ezoba nempilo engcono kunale engiyiphilile. Uma ufikelwa ukucasuka noma ukudideka ngebhondwe eliseziko, khumbula lokhu ngiwumzali oyendwana osemncane onamaphupho okumele afezeke. I have made peace that I’ll attend school activities alone, travel the world with him alone and take all responsibilities on raising a boy child and installing best values in his life. Khula ke zibulo lami, isibani sakho sikhanye njalo! . . . . Nkosi angeke ngikuthuke, ngoba ngiyaz umusa wakho unganele.

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Responding to the backlash, Conco told the Sunday Tribune that she never implied Zuma was a deadbeat parent, but just that he was busy, having been a president who already has a big family.

She was quoted as saying: “We all know for a man like Mr Zuma it’s impossible to run family errands every day or to be there for every special day. He missed our son’s first birthday celebration I hosted last year because he was out of the country, but this year could be different. He misses many of our son’s milestones. However, we can’t expect him to be there every day.”

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