Why straight people can’t use the term ‘alphabet gang’

Can straight people use the term “alphabet gang”?

The short answer is no. For most people, the next question would then be “why not”?

Well, for the same reason you cannot use racial and ethnic slurs in reference to an ethnic group you do not belong to, it is hateful and offensive to those people. This is even if those people use that term, phrase or stereotype in reference to themselves.

Also, of members of the LGBTQIA refer to themselves as the Alphabet gang, it’s acceptable. As a person who isn’t part of if, don’t do that.

— MPHO???? (@MphoMoalamedi) May 6, 2021

It’s equivalent to “you blacks, you people”

— MPHO???? (@MphoMoalamedi) May 6, 2021

It has been hard enough getting the world to understand that black people are deserving of basic human rights and that those rights need to respected. Now it seems we have to do that work all over again just for people to understand why members of the LGBTIQ+ deserve to have their human rights respected.

The term “alphabet gang” – often used as a way of avoiding stating all the correct letters of the acronym used to identify the community – seems innocuous enough but may be perceived as a form of disregard for the humanity and dignity of queer people.

When a straight person uses the term in reference to queer people, the act can be considered homophobic.

I am also starting to believe that money is involved here, you can’t be this naive and force your experiment on us like this. Why don’t you leave our kids to us and worry about your alphabet gang. It was better when there was only somizi eish now…it ABCLGBZYU ay sukaaa

— Deep.????.Music (@Ben_Da_Mano) August 25, 2020

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Some may argue it is okay to use the term because some queer people use it in reference to themselves. However, it is common knowledge that one cannot simply co-opt a potentially offensive phrase just because one feels like it. Especially not when the person using the phrase comes from a privileged position in relation to those it is referring to.

Not you swearing that queer people are the problem whilst referring to them as the “alphabet gang”.

— Bussy Riot ????o???? (@_theekword) May 6, 2021

“Privilege” is a word that causes many to immediately shut down. However, we need to move away from perceiving this and other words as accusations.

Straight people enjoy privilege over queer people and by virtue of that fact, straight people are in a position to oppress queer people. Straight people should, therefore, not use anything other than the correct, respectful words in reference to queer people.

Parent’s house, parent’s rules. People do not have to like gay bi or any member of the alphabet gang. Harming them is a different situation that I don’t approve of. Though I do not have to acknowledge or entertain their foolery, if they think it’s that.

— SapphireDustGodd (@DustGodd) June 2, 2021

Words carry weight and that is not something to be taken lightly.

Respecting the gravity of words should not be perceived as self-censorship. Instead, there should be a shift in perspective with the aim of being a better person.

Being offensive under the guise of speaking one’s mind, being unfiltered and being real contributes nothing to the betterment of society.