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31 months ago, I went to church for the first time after popping a human out of my body. I was hormonal and struggling with breastfeeding. I also was tired of fighting all the strength it took to exit the house with a newborn for the first time.
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They did.
Plus, you have no idea if those are pre or post-pregnancy pictures anyway. On social media, we see what people want us to see. And here you are feeling pathetic because she shared her first picture a month after giving birth and it looks like she never gave birth.
My blogging sister Aisha O’Reilly superbly shared about the unrealities of ‘deflating’ after childbirth. An unreality shoved down the throats of so many women. Postpartum journeys are overwhelmed by envy and inefficiency at the sight of content that reflects it.
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You don’t owe anyone a flat or ‘non-pregnant looking’ tummy. A tummy that played a pivotal role in the creation of human life.
Your journey. Your rules. Your body.
Karabo Mokoena
Karabo Mokoena is a wife, a girl mom, a writer and content creator. She is the Resident Contributor for Parenty and a Mommy Blogger, creating relatable parenting content for her blog Black Mom Chronicles. You can engage with her on her Instagram and Facebook pages. She is a Political Science graduate, who has worked in Human Resources for most of her professional career. She loves engaging with people, thus her choice to specialise in recruitment. She loves telling stories and sharing her life’s journey to brighten someone else’s day.
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