Tips on meeting the in-laws

MEETING the in-laws for the first time is usually a stressful exercise.

Here are eight easy ways to prepare and avoid the awkward moments, as well as making a good and lasting impression.

Dress well

The way you look is of great importance when trying to create a good first impression, so choose clothes that flatter you without making you appear overdressed.

Do not slum it in sweats, or wear a cocktail dress or tuxedo.

Make sure that your clothes are clean, presentable, and not too revealing or potentially offensive.

Bring a small gift

Bringing a gift is considered polite. Things like a bottle of wine, chocolates, or some flowers can do wonders.

Start conversations that show you’re interested

Do a little research and find out what your in-laws are interested in to make genuine conversation.

Ask questions about their lives, hobbies and interests.

Compliment them and their stuff

Pass regular comments like ‘You have a beautiful home’ or ‘I love that sweater–where did you get it?’

Compliments like these are another way of showing interest towards your in-laws.

Have a one-on-one chat

If you’re at a big family gathering or some other group event, try to get a moment to chat alone with the in-laws.

This doesn’t have to be a big talk, just a chance to show you feel comfortable around them.

These little chats are a great way to bond.

Be especially polite if you are in public

Your in-laws will be paying attention to how you treat them, your partner, and really everyone else, so show respect and politeness.

For example, when eating dinner at a restaurant, do not criticise the food or be rude to the waiter.

Try the food even if you don’t think you’ll like it

If your in-laws have invited you over or out to eat, actually trying the food will show you respect them and appreciate the invitation.

Even if it’s something you don’t normally eat, try a little bit. If you don’t like it, just say thanks and that you’re full.

Telling your in-laws that the food was delicious will also make a good impression

Let them know how nice it was to meet them

Make sure to take a moment before you leave to tell them you had a great time and that you hope to see them again soon.

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