‘Some things are in our control and others not.
‘Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever are our own actions.
‘Things not in our control are body, property, reputation, our social position, and, in one word, whatever are not our own actions’ – Epictetus, Enchiridion.
These words must be some of the most powerful words I have read in a very long time.
They have guided me over the last couple of weeks to learn so much more about myself and the ability to live with the world around me in a more peaceful and understanding manner.
The world around us can be a very challenging place to live.
My children and I arrived in Bahrain exactly a year ago from South Africa to join my husband working here.
We have family and friends in South Africa, and we are constantly aware of the privilege we have here in Bahrain.
It is sad to not be able to have our loved ones close. Last week, a huge amount of activity rocked my birth country, South Africa.
It has brought on more regular communication with those loved ones, making sure they are all safe and well.
I get news from social media and friends and family alike, so the seriousness of what has been going on over the last few days has really stirred my emotions and concerns for the people in a country so beautiful.
The consequences of these ‘protest’ actions can very much be likened to that of a drop that causes a ripple in a bucket of water.
That single drop gave no thought to the chain of events and consequences it would unleash once it hit the water.
It acted with emotion and left the logic aside, which has now created even more uncertainty, insecurity, fear, desperation, anger and division than before.
This, over and above the already volatile and uncertain Covid-19 environment.
It is with great sadness and fear that we hang on and rely on every bit of communication from our loved ones in South Africa.
We pray for everyone in South Africa, and those who need guidance and help in any way to help find the peaceful path.
I would like to end with another quote that I feel should be a motto for everyday: ‘Stop talking about being a good person, just be one’.
SHARON HUDSON
