Starting a family needs thought and lots of planning
Starting a family is a big responsibility and not a decision to be taken lightly.
The panicked, wide-eyed and sleep deprived eyes of new parents are a constant reminder that raising a family is not easy.
How then does one know if and when you are ready to start this enormous commitment and adventure?
Here are five questions to ask yourself before you take that big step:
1.Am I mature enough: Are you an adult, not only in terms of physical maturity, but are you emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually mature enough to raise a child?
2.Am I able to take care of myself?
If you are still dependent on others to take care of you it is a good idea to wait until you feel confident and capable enough to take care of yourself and your baby.
3.Am I in a stable relationship?
While there are many successful single mothers and fathers, your best bet for success, happiness and well-being is love, compassion and support from a partner who is committed to both you and your family.
4.Am I prepared to take time off work? This is an important question, especially for career women. Juggling a family and a career are not easy and in the early days you will need to be around for your baby.
5.Am I financially fit?
This is another big question. It takes more than love to raise a baby or child.
Try to estimate the cost of baby supplies, clothes and furniture as well as other things you may need such as day care.
“Starting a family is quite possibly one of the most rewarding decisions you will ever make, but you need to consider the reality that raising a child is going to make huge demands on your time and your bank balance,” says Peter Jordan, Principal Officer of Fedhealth.
“Taking the time while you are planning your family to investigate what will be at your disposal after the arrival of your child will be well worth it. We encourage all expectant parents to ask questions and educate themselves on what support is available to them.”
