Whatever you have achieved or done thus far is not yet your best. Your true best is yet unknown and the only way to strive towards it is taking full responsibility for your life, dreams and destiny. It’s a pity that we have been conditioned from birth to always look elsewhere for the root cause of our difficulties except in the most logical and most realistic place: Ourselves.
If you want your life to change, you must change. Simply put, you have to change from who you are right now in order to give birth to who you want to be. You have to switch from being victim orientated to be victor orientated. This can be achieved simply by taking full responsibility for your life. It won’t be easy of course, but it will be worth it. People who are victim orientated always feel they are being attacked and victimised by the world and end up seeking for something that will numb them from feeling that way. They resort to alcohol, drugs, watch too much television, always complain and attend pity-parties just to make themselves feel better until they die. This is a lousy way to live. They miss the opportunity to give their best in life because they are always on the run.
Victor orientated people, on the other hand, experience the same challenges as their counter parts but instead take full responsibility as they have realised that laying blame is a waste of time. People with this victor mentality focus on their dreams and goals and will let nothing stop them from achieving them. You are God’s gift to the world, don’t deprive us of your gifts and greatness!
