Domestic violence is generally considered to only include physical violence, but there are many different forms of abuse. With the lockdown keeping us shut in with abusers, it is important to recognise signs of abuse and know where victims can seek help.
Social worker at Amanzimtoti Trauma Unit, Nokwanda Dlamini, who received a Bachelor’s Degree in Social Work from the University of South Africa in 2013, explained that the organisation saw eight cases of abuse since the start of lockdown.
“The world of abusive relationships is deeply rooted in today’s society and is readily expected as the norm. Those suffering at the hands of the abuser often feel incredibly alone, isolated, very often mistrusting others as their confidence in their abilities have been tarnished. Domestic violence and abuse can happen to anyone, yet the problem is often overlooked, excused, or denied. This is especially true when the abuse is psychological, rather than physical,” according to ATU.
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Some of the signs of abuse include:
-Social withdrawal
-Low self-esteem and confidence
-Depression and anxiety
-Always scared and confused
-Visible injuries and bruises
-Difficulties in making or maintaining relationships
-Always suspicious
ATU offers a wide range of services to ensure that victims of abuse including a safe house for victims of domestic and gender-based violence for women with their children, psychosocial support, counselling for both men and women, information on available services and referrals to other service providers such as protection orders, maintenance and family-related issues.
“Victims of abuse must contact SAPS should they feel that their lives are in danger. Go to the nearest Magistrate court to apply for a protection order, and contact our organisation for counselling or inquiries,” she added.
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Nokwanda previously volunteered at Durban YMCA where she was involved in their child and youth development programmes. She was recognised as one of the most dedicated volunteer of the year in 2011. Working with children and vulnerable people remains her biggest passion.
To report gender-based violence command call 080-042-8428, this is operational 24 hours, seven days a week.
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