Dudu offers survivors new hope
The dedicated nursing professional has written a book offering hope to victims of gender-based violence and rape.
THE name Duduzile Ndlovu is well-known with the medical field – and for good reason.
The forensic nurse and operational manager at Port Shepstone Regional Hospital’s Thuthuzela Care Centre, which deals primarily with rape victims, has a string of accolades to her name, and notched up five awards in 2014 alone.
“Gender-based violence, including rape, is on the increase in our communities,” says Dudu. “We deal with victims as young as three months and as old as 95 years. In most cases, their attacker is known to them and this makes it very difficult for them to speak out, especially when they are children.”
Her work at the Thuthuzela Care Centre made her realise the need for communities to have easy access to information on these crimes.
So she put pen to paper, writing a self-help book to assist both the victims and those who are responsible for their welfare such as teachers and parents.
The book was a labour of love, and took nearly three years to complete. It is a wonderful collection of personal recollections, invaluable advice and uplifting messages of hope.
“The book contains helpful tips on how to prevent post-rape HIV infection and pregnancy, where, when and how to report the assault, and what to expect during the collection of forensic evidence,” she says.
Warning signs, often quite obvious if one knows what to look for, are also highlighted.
“These signs – both physical and emotional – can help a parent or teacher identify possible abuse and take the necessary steps. It also explores the reasons behind children’s reluctance to come forward and disclose the abuse.”
Most importantly, adds Dudu, half the book offers counselling to rape survivors. “I want them to know that they can rise above this experience and not let it define them. They must realise that with the right help and encouragement, they can move on and live full, happy lives. This is why I have titled the book ‘Why Hope Matters’.”
The book launches at Kapenta Bay Hotel on November 14. Tickets cost R150 per person and include a copy of the book, dinner and a small gift pack. For more information, contact Dudu at 082 4885754.
