In a world where words often fail in the face of profound loss, The Compassionate Friends (TCF) stands as a beacon of hope and understanding for bereaved families. Nestled in the heart of Highlands North, this dedicated organisation offers more than just a support group; it provides a lifeline to parents, grandparents and siblings navigating the uncharted waters of grief after the loss of a child. Andrea Berzen, the Johannesburg chapter leader, explains, “Our mission is to offer friendship and understanding to help families find hope and healing.”
Founded by Reverend Simon Stephens in the UK in 1969 and brought to South Africa by Linda Abelheim in 1983, TCF has grown into a vital resource for families coping with the unimaginable. Berzen shares that TCF’s unique strength lies in its community of volunteers, all of whom have personally experienced the loss of a child. “When you join TCF, you’re not just joining a group, you’re joining a family of individuals who truly understand where you’re coming from,” Berzen explains.
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Arthur Christie, chairperson of the TCF board, highlights the profound impact of shared experiences. “The one thing we noticed is people’s need to talk through their experience. It’s comforting to know that everyone at TCF has walked a similar path,” says Christie. This shared understanding fosters an environment where members can openly express their grief, knowing they are in a safe space filled with empathy and compassion.
Carl Sutton, a long-time member, shares his journey with The Compassionate Friends. “This place has been a great comfort for us. I lost my second eldest daughter about 26 years ago, and when we heard about TCF, we started attending the group. My eldest daughter came with us and, over time, found comfort in opening up about her sister. It was a great thing for us to come here; we learned quite a lot.”
TCF provides support programs, including monthly meetings with guest speakers and online counselling sessions for families dealing with grief. TCF also offers resources on grief and healing and educates communities on how to support grieving families. The organisation is sustained through community support and fundraising initiatives.
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The organisation also collaborates with other groups like the South African Depression and Anxiety Group (SADAG) and LifeLine to ensure comprehensive support for grieving families. This network of support helps families navigate their grief and find a sense of community and understanding.
To continue providing these vital services, TCF welcomes donations from the public. Contributions can be dropped off at 122 Athol Street, Highlands North.
As TCF continues to grow, it remains steadfast in its commitment to providing a safe haven for bereaved families. For anyone struggling with the loss of a child, TCF offers a compassionate community where grief is not just understood but shared, and where the journey towards healing can begin.
Details: If you need help you can WhatsApp 078 147 2705 or call 011 440 6322.
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