Starting school for the first time can be a big adjustment for both parents and learners, especially with the insecurity surrounding Covid-19.
Counsellor at the Education for Living Department at Family Life Centre in Parkwood Irene Motaung spoke to the Gazette to discuss this transition.
“It is important for parents to understand that not only are their children excited about going to school after the festive holidays, but they are also a little sad that the holidays are over. Some kids feel nervous and sad that they are leaving their nursery school lives behind to start a schooling career. The first day at school can be a little too much for little ones as they must learn new things, the new environment, teachers and friends,” said Motaung.
“Parents can help their children by talking to them about their excitements and worries… Providing a mental orientation under the Covid-19 pandemic can be of great help to children since it might be a challenge for parents as they might not be allowed inside the school premises.”
She advised talking through what might happen on the first day to help children become familiar with the routines. Parents should find out how their children feel about the start of school and talk through their concerns.
Motaung advised parents to prepare as much as possible the night before school begins so that there is calmness in the home before leaving for school.
She explained that parents should discuss with their children the important role of teachers in helping children learn new things. “Parents can teach children that teachers will be there on their first day to guide them and that they can ask questions [to teachers] if they do not understand things.”
Motaung said that it is important for teachers to invest in self-care and arrive at school with a positive attitude on their first day. “Teachers are also feeling discouraged and scared because of the uncertainties caused by the pandemic.”
Some suggestions for teachers include:
- Do something you like on the weekend or day before school starts
- Make a list of the top five reasons you chose to become a teacher and post it in a place where you can see it in the morning when getting ready for work
- Plan something for yourself for the first day back that you can look forward to. For example, a cup of coffee with a friend.
Family Life Centre offers parenting skills training to help prepare for your child’s first day at school. For more information, email intake@familylife.co.za or call 011 788 4784.
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