Create your own dignity box to help the less fortunate
Schools can also get involved in project.
SECUNDA – Famsa recently launched their Dignity Box project that supports people affected by family violence.
They are collecting boxes that contain several toiletries that will be given to victims of rape and family violence.
Famsa’s aim is to collect at least 500 boxes and to create awareness.
The 16 Days of Activism against violence against women and children is celebrated from 24 November to 10 December.
Ms Rina Louw, social worker at Famsa, is looking for a group of volunteers to train and to get involved with this project.
“Famsa, cares for victims of domestic violence, child abuse and bullying and we want to help,” said Ms Louw.
They also want to get the schools involved as well and use the opportunity to talk to learners about child abuse.
The items used to fill the dignity boxes include a toothbrush, toothpaste, Vaseline, toilet paper, soap, shampoo and conditioner, a nail brush, sanitary pads, lipstick, deodorant, hand cream, a face cloth, something fun and something sweet (non-perishable).
Individuals do not have to sponsor a full box, but can only sponsor some of the items as well.
Ms Louw said Famsa wants to support people affected by physical violence, emotional violence, sexual violence and economic abuse.
“Emotional abuse include breaking down a victim’s confidence and self-esteem, withholding crucial information from someone, threats of hurt, danger or ultimatums, manipulative behaviour, name calling, jealous and controlling behaviour, unfounded accusations, humiliation and intimidation,” said Ms Louw.
“Economic abuse can include to deny the victim access to or knowledge of the family’s finances, denying access to his or her own money, demanding detailed accounting, the forbidding of a woman to have her own bank account, not paying child support, not allowing your partner to work or destruction of personal possessions.”
Child victims of abuse will show aggressive behaviour, poor school performance, are withdrawn, have developmental problems and can have brain damage.
Ms Louw encouraged people to get involved as volunteers, to support the project and to speak out against women and child abuse.
“Do not turn a blind eye or a deaf ear, you can report abuse and stay anonymous.
“You can also sponsor a victim’s therapy. Famsa has qualified and skilled therapists.”
For more information, contact Famsa at 017 631 1593 or visit Famsa’s Facebook page at Famsa Highveld Ridge.
To report abuse, contact the police’s crime stop unit at 08600 10111, report gender-based violence at 0800 428 428, contact the ChildLine at 0800 055 555 or the Elderly People Helpline at 0800 003 081.
