The emotional toll women face with surrogacy

POLOKWANE – Surrogate mothers play a role in giving other couples an opportunity to become parents, fulfill their dream as well as to complete their families.

People often think of surrogacy as something that is being done for money forgetting that it is also about making parenthood possible for other women who are unable to conceive.

Surrogate mothers face several challenges after giving birth which can be physical and emotional. This is because they also experience post-pregnancy challenges just like any other woman.

Feeling sad is also what other women face because they are losing a bond with the baby after gestation and the realisation that they are no longer needed. Other emotions include relief that the whole process is over and the intended parents are happy.

According to clinical psychologist Mudzunga Mathivha women often find it hard to accept that the bond that they had with the baby during pregnancy cannot carry on.

“Women who choose to be surrogate mothers must be emotionally prepared to overcome the sadness they might feel after having to give the child to the parents.”

Surrogate mothers should also understand what to expect during the whole process and should consider attending counselling sessions.

Mathivha also highlighted that having a good support system can also help an individual to recover well and be able to adjust to the situation.

“Having support from family and friends is crucial after giving birth as it helps one to not feel.