While human trafficking continues to flourish worldwide, organisations such as Stop Trafficking of People (STOP) Limpopo remain relentless in their efforts to curb the scourge from affecting more lives. Stop Limpopo reckons it is advisable to equip a child with the necessary tools to avoid becoming a victim of this heinous crime during the Festive Season.
According to STOP volunteer Hiadee von Well, the abolitionist William Wilberforce said: “You may choose to look the other way, but you can never say again that you did not know.”
“These are some tips and we hope that it will help you to equip your child with the necessary tools in order to stay safe and to draw attention when necessary.
We do not want to raise a paranoid generation, but a generation that is vigilant and empowered to act wisely in dangerous situations. It is easier to raise strong children than it is to repair broken adults,” Von Well said.
Tips
Make sure a child knows his name, address and contact numbers of their parents.
Teach them key emergency numbers such as the Police (10111) and the South African Human Trafficking Resource Line (0800 222 777).
Parents and caregivers should never leave children unattended.
Tell your child that if they are being followed or chased by someone with a vehicle, that they should run in the opposite direction which will buy them crucial time in their effort to get away while the driver still has to make a U-turn.
It’s okay to be rude to a grown-up if they do not feel safe and that they should not hesitate to fight back, scream or make a scene in order to attract attention. Tell them not to stop until someone pays attention.
Remind your child of the basics – don’t talk to strangers, don’t accept any lifts, don’t accept sweets from strangers and don’t wander off by yourself.
Don’t let anyone on the phone or at the door know that you are alone.
If your child is feeling lost or unsafe, there is no guarantee that there will be a friendly shop owner or Police officer around to help. The next best thing is to tell them to find a mother with kids if they are in danger or alone. If you ever get lost in a mall, ask the closest store clerk for help and stay where you are until you are found.
Make up a family code word. If you have sent someone to pick up your child they should be aware of what the code word is so your child will know not to leave with anyone who does not know the code word.
Alternatively, if your child is at a friend’s house and somebody or something is making them feel unsafe, they can call you and say the code word to you over the phone, so you will know to get them out of that situation.
We often pass children having tantrums in adult’s arms. In fact, we have seen it so many times that a lot of us have become immune to it. Teaching your child to scream out words that would alarm others can be very useful if they ever end up in a danger situation. Phrases such as ‘Who are you?’ ‘Help!’ ‘Leave me alone, I don’t know you!’ and ‘Where’s my mom and dad?’ will arouse suspicion and alert others to the danger.
When travelling ensure all car doors are locked. Maintain following distance in order for you to get out of dangerous if necessary. Be aware of fake car ram accidents from behind. Do not get out of the car and rather drive to the nearest Police station.
Always be aware of your surroundings. Malls are busy during the Festive Season so keep your children close-by at all times.
Story: RC Myburgh
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