Cancer: it affects all

Cancer is a reality all over the world and, according to the Cancer Association of South Africa (Cansa), 14 million people worldwide hear the words “you have cancer” every year.

According to Cansa’s web page, one in four South African’s are affected by cancer through diagnosis of family, friends or self.

Wilma Jocks is a well-known resident of Polokwane and is currently undergoing treatment for cancer.

“People should look after themselves. I’m currently undergoing my fifth round of chemotherapy. The other chemotherapy sessions were not successful. The cancer is becoming more aggressive and it is almost as if the cancer is immune to chemotherapy. My liver is double its normal size and that affects my breathing and eating.”

Wilma says the chemotherapy rooms at a local doctor’s surgery are packed with people on Thursday mornings.

“There are 25 chairs and all of them are full. People have to wait in queues outside. If the nurse gets a good vein to put the needle in, it goes fast, but the chemotherapy hardens the veins, which makes it almost impossible to put a needle in.”

Because of all the patients, there is very little time for nurses to offer counselling, but Wilma says there is one nurse who prepares the patients for what they will experience.

Adri Ras, regional manager at Cansa says there are support groups, as well as counsellors who visit cancer patients.

“Patients should contact Cansa so that we can help and support them,” she says.

Wilma also says the family members of the patient are sometimes forgotten.

“These people are left without a breadwinner, partner or soul mate. Sometimes it is worse for the family and the people left behind. I feel sorry for the people who have to look after us.”

Harleen Idenson, a cancer survivor, says cancer is a drawn out illness that kills you slowly. “It is financially crippling,” she says.

Wilma says there is something new to deal with every day. Currently her teeth are infected because of the chemotherapy.

“How do I keep positive? I have a wonderful husband, two children and a friend like Harleen. My daughter is getting married in November.”