Mabine Mametja and his fatherly role at PEMPS

POLOKWANE – “Fathers play a role more important than the eye can see,” says Mabine Mametja, the deputy principal at Pietersburg English Medium Primary School (PEMPS).

Walking with Mametja through the school grounds feels like accompanying a celebrity; excited learners constantly stop to greet him with warm embraces and shouts of “Good morning, Mr Mametja!”

Despite not teaching the lower grades, he is deeply loved by these students, illustrating the profound impact he has on them.

Mametja started his teaching career in 2003, driven by a passion for helping children grow into better people.

“It is fulfilling to see them grow and witness the positive effects of your contributions in their lives. It’s rewarding when former students remember the impact you had on them,” he says.

While he is friendly and well-liked, Mametja maintains respect through clear boundaries.

“As a teacher, you act as a parent at school. It’s crucial to be approachable and maintain an open line of communication, allowing students to express themselves freely yet respectfully. We laugh and have fun, but they understand there are limits,” he explains.

Mametja emphasised the significance of Father’s Day in appreciating important male figures.

“There is a unique space that a father needs to fill, and it’s not a role to be taken for granted. Many fathers work quietly, often unnoticed, like a duck paddling furiously beneath the water’s surface. Fathers provide a sense of security and confidence to their families,” he says.

He highlights the importance of listening and being truthful as key qualities for fathers.

“Fathers should listen to their family’s needs and avoid making empty promises. If something will take time, be honest about it. Explain challenges and work on them, showing reliability,” Mametja advises.

His message to other fathers on this day is to embrace and reflect on their crucial role, understanding that their influence is greater than it appears.