According to the Bahá’í Writings: “Every child is potentially light of the world and at the same time its darkness” and “… the aim of an educator is to so train human souls that their angelic aspect may overcome their animal side”
Some parents seem to think that the school or community around us will give direction to our children so long as we provide for their material needs. The upbringing of children, I feel, is our responsibility and privilege as parents. We need to create in our homes such conditions and an atmosphere which will be conducive to the material and spiritual welfare and advancement of our children.
The first training which children receive is at home and is the strongest foundation for their future development. In particular, mothers have a special role to play in the early training and education of children, especially during the first few years of life when the basic values and character of the individual is formed. “… it is in early childhood that a firm foundation must be laid. While the branch is green and tender it can easily be made straight”, state the Bahá’í Writings.
A balanced education (both spiritual and intellectual education) will be essential for our children to develop to their full potential and for them to be equipped to contribute socially and spiritually to the advancement of our communities. However, special emphasis should be placed on moral and spiritual education.
The Bahá’í Writings state that “… from the very beginning, the children must receive divine education and must continually be reminded to remember their God. Let the love of God pervade their inmost being, commingled with their mother’s milk.”
“Schools must first train the children in the principles of religion … but this in such a measure that it may not injure the children by resulting in ignorant fanaticism and bigotry.”
Children should not be left to drift unguided in a world so laden with moral dangers. We need to cultivate in our children tolerance, love, brotherhood and a belief in the oneness of humanity, compassion, understanding, sacrifice, humility, and commitment to justice towards all.
While child-rearing is a privilege, we need to view education as a means for the discovery and the perfection of the God-given capabilities of our children and for instilling in them a commitment to serve the best interests of their families, communities and humanity.
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- Well-being and peace and security A Bahá’í Perspective
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