“We are human beings – we are built to touch. It’s essential,” according to Helen Fisher, senior research fellow at the Kinsey Institute, illustrating the profound effect the Covid-19 pandemic is having on every one of us, and on all of our senses – most importantly touch.
“Touch deprivation, or skin hunger as it is sometimes known, is a condition that arises when we have little or no physical contact with others. Yet touch is extremely important for our emotional and physical well-being,” said Helen.
She added that not knowing when we’ll be able to extend a handshake, and share a hug and cuddle, has some of us craving social contact, touch and connection – the things we never knew we were taking for granted.
“Extensive research confirms the positive therapeutic effects a pet and pet parent relationship can have. One of the main reasons for this? Pets fulfil our basic human need for touch,” explained Carla Bath, marketing manager for Hill’s Pet Nutrition.
Stroking, hugging, and loving your pet can calm and soothe you when you’re stressed or anxious. Both are feelings we’ve all become accustomed to over the last couple of months.”
Caring for a pet gives you a wonderful purpose; this is especially important for the elderly who are even more isolated now due to the risk of the pandemic to their health, those living alone and children.
“For the elderly, feeding, pampering, brushing, exercising, and playing with a pet will get them up and moving, ultimately boosting both their physical and emotional well-being. Research has shown that for those who live alone, pet parenthood decreases risk of mortality by 33 per cent. This is because of the way pets make us feel – happy, loved and content.”
Carla added, “Lockdown has been tough on everyone. Make no mistake, our children are battling as much, if not more, than us. Kids pick up on our anxiety, and while they may not be able to express their feelings like adults are able to, stress manifests itself in other ways, including stomach aches, heightened emotions, temper tantrums, clinginess etc.
Pets not only teach kids responsibility, altruism and compassion, they have also been known to boost the immune system, especially if children have been exposed to them since infancy.
“Unlike parents, pets are never critical and don’t give orders. They are always loving, and their mere presence can help provide children with a sense of security. Having an ever-present pet will also be able to help ease separation anxiety in younger children when parents eventually go back to work. Plus, having the love and companionship of a pet can make children feel important and help them develop a positive self-image,” added Carla.
“It’s okay to laugh, smile and be happy during times of great sadness. Our pets have shown us that there is still joy to be found.
Our pets are usually the most entertaining in the family. Their crazy antics and little quirks often have us in stitches.
“The laughter, in turn, releases those feel-good endorphins we’re all craving. Caring for our pets by providing them with the best possible nourishment through food, giving them that extra snuggle before bedtime, grooming them, playing and exercising with them mean you’ll both reap the rewards of this very special bond,” concluded Carla.
