Continued from last week
View your friends as enemies
People who are seen as unattractive often find any little reason to fight with their friends. Instead of standing together, caring and supporting them, it brings you joy to turn your back on them… Your friends are not your enemies they are your pillar of strength.
You call the shots
Feeling the need to constantly be in charge, call the shots and make all the important decisions on your own and being controlling?
Are you rude?
If you are the kind of person that’s impolite, dishonest, offensive or embarrassing others with rude comments in public – stop! There will be times when you won’t agree or see eye-to-eye with the rest but there is no point in making a scene.
Unreliable but dependent?
Are you there when your friends call for help? Are you always busy when someone needs your help? If you’re the person no one can count on, that’s an unattractive quality in friendships. Similarly if you are the one always calling for help, yet never offering yours, that is another unattractive quality that no one wants in a friend.
Always negative
Being negative is not a positive quality. If you’re constantly putting others down, or seeing situations in negative light, you have to change your attitude.
