KAMAGUGU – Couples who attended the recent seminar held at the Alliance Church nodded in appreciation as renowned TV preacher, psychologist and marriage counsellor, Bishop Dununu Msibi, affectionately called Bishop Dununu, outlined ways of maintaining a healthy marriage.
He recently lambasted foreign nationals in national newspapers for their penis-enlargement adverts, saying it is offensive that every street pole offers men penis enlargement and help as if they have a problem.
In his engaging seminar, which keeps both men and women wide awake with laughter and awe in between, was aimed at reigniting marriage and fighting against the scourge of divorce in communities.
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“True answers are found in research. The Scripture says you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free,” he said.
He also gave couples tips on understanding three phases of marriage which include honeymoon, conflict and settlement. He called on married men to love their wives as Christ loves the church and as they (men) love their own bodies.
Dununu said men have to emulate Christ in His godly character in their own relationships. “He loved without doubt as long as there is an element of repentance,” he said.
Dununu said men should be in a position of controlling their natural emotions of jealousy and ego when they are to sustain their marriages. “The greatest test is to love her with all her mistakes,” he added.
He called on young men to only consider marrying a girl whom they can die for because keeping a healthy relationship is not child’s play. “If you can protect your wife from your own family, then you love her,” he explained.
Addressing women, Dununu emphasised that submitting to their husbands is God’s principle. “To keep your husband, submit to him and give him proper sex,” he said. He told women that through submission, they can change even stubborn men into good husbands. “Every woman who wishes to change her husband must submit to him,” he said.
Dununu said women should not deny their husbands conjugal rights, adding that most men cheat because their own wives fail to deal with their sexual desires. He says women must have thrills to satisfy their men sexually. He also shared biblical facts of the importance of foreplay.
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