First time Grade 1 parents get tips from local principal

A new adventure awaits your little one as their pre-school years have come to an end and they make the jump to Grade 1, which can be daunting for both children and parents.

With the start of Grade 1 having new teachers, other learners, new surroundings and a new type of normal the little ones would need to become familiar with, the first day can be an intimidating one for the family. However, there are ways in which everyone can be prepared and supported.

The principal at Crawford International Lonehill Preparatory, Gordon Ewen said he often noticed the first few months of Grade 1 were more intimidating for parents than the learners.
“It is amazing how quickly children can adapt. Yes, on the first day there might be a few nerves, but once the children are settled in and more or less know where to go, they are at ease and ready for this new chapter,” he said.

“Parents, on the other hand, can take a bit longer to let go. You might think that your child isn’t ready for this new adventure. Your child is stronger than you think. When your child tells you that they are ready to walk to class on their own, let them, it is their way of showing you that they are okay.”
As much as primary school is a new chapter in your child’s life, it is also a new chapter in your life.

Here are a few additional actions you can take to fully support your child as they transition from preschool to primary school:

• Tip one: Explore the school facilities with your child
  Ewen said this gave your child the opportunity to explore the new school facilities and grow into them.
  “If possible, arrange a visit to the school grounds before school starts. By visiting the school grounds, you allow your child to get excited about the new adventure and, while holding their hand, show them the way.”
• Tip two: Reach out to your child’s Grade 1 teacher
  It can be incredibly beneficial to have a relationship with your child’s Grade 1 teacher as you will have access to more information and communication. Ewen also encouraged parents to attend parent evenings and information sessions as they would be able to connect with the teacher to build that crucial relationship.
  “Should a parent feel they need specific information, I would encourage parents to personally reach out to the teacher and ask for clarity, guidance and advice.”
• Tip three: Give your child a bit more independence
  Ewen suggests assisting your child to pack their own school bags instead of packing it for them. This will give them a sense of independence as they transition to their new educational career.

“Support your child, but don’t put too much pressure on them to move in a certain direction, as they are also still finding their feet and deciding what they like and don’t like.
“You can also create a safe space for your child to explore new activities in various categories including culture, sports and academics.”

Ewen concluded that each child developed at different stages and would eventually reach their full potential.
“Refrain from comparing your child with other children. By simply prioritising your child’s needs and listening to them, you’ve already done a great job at supporting them during this time of transition.”

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