Don’t suffer in silence, report bullying

Different stakeholders led by Department of Social Development (DSD) social workers converged at Forest High School to educate the Grade Eight and Nine learners about social ills on February 9.

These include child abuse, bullying, teenage pregnancy and substance abuse. DSD social worker Khangwelo Mutshinya introduced each and every speaker to a packed hall.

Childline social worker Siphokazi Sobantu first talked about their new toll-free number (116) where every child can reach them. She also explained more about the types of abuse learners go through.

“There are different forms of abuse. These include emotional, physical, cyber and sexual. You must report anyone who touches you inappropriately, don’t keep quiet as that can be mistaken as if you enjoyed it. Don’t entertain bullies, report them. Also do not overshare your personal information, especially on social media because you don’t know your enemies or your family’s enemies.

“We know that a person comprises of body, soul, mind and experiences, so try to deal with any trauma you may face. If you need counselling we are here, call us,” she said.

Health promoter based at Rosetteville Clinic, Boitumelo Barry, emphasized the burden that comes with teenage pregnancy. “You must avoid at all cost to be a teenage mother. It is a lonely journey which sometimes comes with suicidal thoughts.

“You can’t breastfeed and come to school at the same time. And now it comes as a package in a form of HIV. This will ruin your life forever because of the bad decision you took.

“Stay as you are, wait for the right moment when you are old enough to take plausible decisions. Remember local clinics are there for you if you have any questions, use them,” she said.

DSD social worker Zandile Makhubo said their department works with primary and high school learners. They help them to navigate through life challenges they may face both at home and at school.

“If you are experiencing problems, tell any teacher you trust and she/he will then ask us to intervene. Don’t kill yourself because of problems. Don’t bottle them, talk so that you can get help. If you are going through bullying, report it. Don’t fight back and remember you don’t have to bear your problems alone,” she said.

SANCA representatives warned the learners about that first smoke or drink. Thato Ntlemeza, together with other members, put on a show about people who are hooked on substances. They said help is available and learners must use it.

Senior education specialist from JHB Central District, Prinavin Naick, applauded the learners for their outstanding behavior throughout the session.

“I’ve never seen well-behaved and well-dressed learners like you. This kind of discipline and respect, I love it. Just promise me that going out here you pledge to be drug-free, HIV-free and pregnancy-free learners,” he said.

Acting principal Shaffy Stevens thanked all the stakeholders and the learners for participating in the session.

“Thank you all and to you learners thank you for the positive vibe you exude, you are our future leaders,” he said.