“I’m born to succeed; the infinite within.” – Joseph Murphy
Let’s look at some of the most common failure-causing problems.
1. Lack of persistence
More people fail not because they lack knowledge or talent but because they just quit. It’s important to remember two words: persistence and resistance. Persist in what must be done and resist what ought not to be done.
2. Lack of conviction
People who lack conviction take the middle of the road. But what happens in the middle of the road? You get run over. People without conviction go along to get along because they lack confidence and courage. They conform in order to get accepted, even when they know that what they are doing is wrong.
3. Rationalisation
Winners might analyse, but they never rationalise. Losers rationalise and have a book full of excuses to tell you why they couldn’t succeed.
4. Dismissal of past mistakes
Some people live and learn, and some only live. Failure is a teacher if we have the right attitude. Wise people learn from their mistakes—experience is the name they give to slipups.
5. Lack of discipline
Anyone who has accomplished anything worthwhile has never done it without discipline. Discipline takes self-control, sacrifice and avoiding distractions and temptations. It means staying focused.
6. Poor self-esteem
Poor self-esteem is a lack of self-respect and self-worth. People with low self-confidence are constantly trying to find themselves rather than creating the person they want to be.
Don’t label yourself. You might have failed, but you’re not a failure until you stop trying. Think of yourself as someone still striving toward a goal.
Looking at your life right now, which ones are the most contributing reasons you are not achieving your goals and dreams? Be honest with yourself and change the route.
