Hacks to teaching your child good table manners
Children are not born with good manners; it’s up to parents to teach them proper table etiquette - and it's never to early to start.
Family meals with children under the age of five are usually messy affairs but still, it’s important for parents to start teaching their children table manners – even from an early age. We have a few pointers to help you.
Why are table manners important?
Good manners are more than just saying “please” and “thank you”. Explain to your child that manners are a way to show kindness to others at the table and that they are rules that apply to everyone. Pre-schoolers are eager to please and keen to learn. It is critical to remember that children learn by watching, imitating, and practicing. YOU are your child’s best role model, so make sure you are practicing proper table manners and setting a good example yourself.
Top table manners to teach children
Before sitting at the table, wash your hands
Explain to your child that keeping their hands clean will keep them healthy. Make it easier for your child by placing a tiny step at the sink and providing them with their own special soap to make it more fun.
Always say “please” and “thank you”
This expresses gratitude and respect to the person who prepared or served your meal. When expressing gratitude, these two words cannot be overstated.
Don’t talk with your mouth full
No one wants to see all of your child’s food in their mouth or have it splattered all over the table! Remind your child to take modest mouthfuls of food and swallow them before speaking.
Mealtimes are not playtimes
Phones, iPads, TV, video games, and other electronic devices should not be used at the table. By eliminating these from the table allows your child to concentrate on and enjoy their food, as well as engage with those around them.
At the end of your dinner, let your child assist in clearing the table
Clearing the table does not have to be a difficult task; encourage your child to assist by taking their own plate and cup to the kitchen. Remind your child that helping others can demonstrate kindness and thankfulness.
Maintain a cool, calm, and collected demeanour
Keep in mind that your child will not learn manners right away; it takes time for manners to become habits. They will make mistakes, just like everyone else, and if they don’t want to do something in a certain way, maintain cool and try again the next day.
