Hugo (89) and Susanna (89) Walters, currently residing at Eden Haven, live a life filled with love and support.
They met through a mutual friend in 1947 and celebrated their 64th wedding anniversary on August 9.
“I had never been to the Congo Caves and I wanted to go there during my leave. My friend showed me a photo of Susanna and I asked who was she. He told me she was a friend. I asked him to ask her if I can stay with her family during my leave and she agreed, with permission from her parents,” said Mr Walters.
The Cango Caves visit was the beginning of a beautiful relationship. They started their relationship by writing letters to each other and eventually visits.
After four years of dating, they decided to tie the knot on August 9, 1951.
The couple has three children. Mr Walters said over the years their love matured and Mrs Walters has given him nothing but wonderful years.
Mrs Walters was a full-time house wife.
“She stayed home and looked after the children and the house. When we were married, I told my wife I would like her to look after our children and for me to care for our family,” said Mr Walters.
He is confident their strong relationship is built on his wife’s support.
“I travelled a lot and my work took me to different places. I could only see my family on weekends. But despite me being away from home, she would still ensure our children were cared for and she did it perfectly,” said Mr Walters.
After 64 years of marriage, Mr Walters still praises is wife as a mother.
“She raised our children well. She is a strong woman, a pillar of the family and has made sure our children have the best of everything we could give them,” added Mr Walters.
Mrs Walter was diagnosed with dementia in 2010 and Mr Walters cares for his wife full-time.
He sold their house and moved to Eden Haven, where he receives help in caring for his wife.
“There is no cure for dementia. I can only look after her. Some days are more difficult than others. I would not wish this on anyone – it is not nice.
“I miss her because sometimes she doesn’t even recognise me,” said Mr Walters.
He says marriage has its up and downs, and one needs to know what they want to be able to face the challenges.
“I love her and that is why I married her. And I still love her today. If you love someone you must respect them and always listen to them,” said Mr Walters.
He now spends his days reading, taking walks and just listening to music.
“I worked my entire life and now I’m just enjoying each day as it comes. We enjoy spending time time with our children and grandchildren. If God allows us to live more years, we will be grateful to see our grandchildren grow up,” said Mr Walters.
