Before you unwrap your Christmas gifts this year, take some time to ponder the things you want your children to know about Christmas.
First try and recall your own memories.
Today I cherish the memory of our family and others walking from house to house singing Christmas carols to families just before midnight on Christmas eve.
I cherish the memories of waking up and being reminded that Christmas is a time of giving and caring.
What do you want your children to know about Christmas?
Maybe teach them that relationships are worth more than the gifts you receive.
Some people say Christmas is about giving and caring, while others regard it as a religious day.
Here are a few ideas on what children should know:
• The meaning and tradition of Christmas.
• Allow room for new traditions.
• How to treat other people with kindness and to appreciate the little things that matter.
• If other children still believe in ‘Father Christmas’ and your children don’t, do not ruin it for them.
• Be grateful for what you have because there are less fortunate people who would appreciate an ordinary family Christmas.
• You won’t get everything you want.
• If you are a Christian family, teach them about the Messiah’s birth.
• Even if your Christmas isn’t perfect, there can still be beautiful and joyful moments.
• The number and size of presents received do not matter.
• Be grateful for what you have been blessed to receive.
• Write and save a Christmas list.
Something you will enjoy reminiscing about some day.
• Take time to listen to others and to learn their stories.
• Christmas is about the little things and not just the gifts.
• Look for the joy, the good and the wonder.
• Be thankful for what you have and love your family.
• Remember why you and your family celebrate Christmas.
When we lose focus of what Christmas is about, the season will be gone.
