Columns 23.9.2016 03:35 pm

‘Women don’t like sex as much as dudes do’ and other myths

Why are we so preoccupied with getting our partner to completion rather than focusing on the back-scratching, lip-biting and hallelujah of blood warming under skins as we move together? Come on.

I talk and think about sex a lot; this is something most people I know (even those who have just met me) are well aware of. More often than not I have dudes who are amazed at the fact that I can “out-filth” them, but that’s patriarchy at work. One of the things I hear a lot from these same men is that women don’t think about, have or enjoy sex as much as men do. Ha, aren’t binaries a blast?

‘Women don’t like sex as much as dudes do’ and other myths
‘Women don’t like sex as much as dudes do’ and other myths

‘Women don’t like sex as much as dudes do’ and other myths

Why are we so preoccupied with getting our partner to completion rather than focusing on the back-scratching, lip-biting and hallelujah of blood warming under skins as we move together? Come on.

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