I talk and think about sex a lot; this is something most people I know (even those who have just met me) are well aware of. More often than not I have dudes who are amazed at the fact that I can “out-filth” them, but that’s patriarchy at work. One of the things I hear a lot from these same men is that women don’t think about, have or enjoy sex as much as men do. Ha, aren’t binaries a blast?
Why are we so preoccupied with getting our partner to completion rather than focusing on the back-scratching, lip-biting and hallelujah of blood warming under skins as we move together? Come on.